Marraige Advice.
*~Salaam~*
I guess when you're single and ok, yea, looking, I've noticed that people tend to give you marraige advice whether you ask for it or not. Its like, hello? do I have "Hi, I'm single & ALL I think 'bout is finding my husband" written across my forehead!?! Well, 95% of the time isn't ALWAYS! Just kidding {i.e. the 95%}!!! ::lol::
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So, yesterday, I got advice from someone kind of random, one of my Muslim Professors. His advice on finding a man...
"You have to learn to prioritize! You have make sure you are going for your best chances. Its like, when you have a chance to meet a hand full of guys versus meeting just one or two, you need to go with your best option," and he went on, "trust me! I studied this. How do you think I found my wife? I would make sure to be at the best place for me! So, don't forget!"
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And...after that lil shpeal he went on to encourage me to attend the National Association of Muslim Lawyers- National Muslim Law Student Association ( NAML-NMLSA ) Conference this weekend in D.C. LOL Ummm.. I was just gonna go for the lectures...really! :P
wasalaam,
Madiha
p.s. btw..i'm not going. Although I did tell him to keep a look out for me ;) ...B/c I was also advised (by someone else), make a whole lotta connections! hehe...
p.s.s.... I don't mind all that much. I mean, Alhumdulillah, in the end, these people are just looking out for us! Its actually kinda endearing! :)
13 Comments:
lol... I know what u mean.. some muslim guy was trying to tell me the benefits of marriage and how it's fitna to remain single.. i barely know him. I looked him straight in the eye and was like "are you indirectly proposing to me?" hehehe.
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Good Luck
haha 95% !!!
you mean 99% :p
remember: the turtle always wins the race ;)
Zahera: i feel the same way! lol..btw..ur 21! u getting married?! lol
Hanna: ur response was awesome! wutd he say?! lol
Mohamad: :P
brotherhood: haha..dammit, am i that transparent? j/k j/k lol
#1mnm: LMAO!!!!!!!
Rock on singleness. We cool baby ;)
and then there's us single white boys . . . always (ok, 95% of the time) freakin about getting a damn date, let alone gettin married! :-)
zaynab: yea, thass rite! the others are just jealous! lol :P
mlakin: lol..thats soo true!
marriage eh? i'm more worried about getting into a phd program than getting married. i totally agree with you. it's sad that our culture thinks that there is something wrong with a girl who's #1 priority in life isn't landing a rich good looking boy...
btw...so sorry i've been MIA. i'm in the library writing a paper but promise that we WILL get together this week to catch up---miss you!
J!!! Salaam...I know...#29 find a husband LOL... and i'm glad we got to get some coffee today :P
and..omg & it was him in DC!!!! LOL...well maybe he's changed ::shrug::
what did you think of the conference?
- if you went
ayan: hey wuts up!? mmm i didnt go unfortunately! but i spoke to a couple of ppl who said it was good..but i'll hear more bout it soon i'm sure...i'll let u know wut the best/worst parts were! :)
I love the picture...tiffany's diamonds :0)
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