Oh Snap! Another One of 'Em.

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There seems to be a new trend hitting shaadi's recently. That one word that kills some of the shaadi excitement and any hopes of meeting or even seeing someone. S.E.G.R.E.G.A.T.I.O.N. Hey, the bride and groom have it set, I mean why be shisty, don't you think it's only fair that they share in their happiness? lol...

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In all seriousness though, we all know for a fact that the boys' momma's are out to play at shaadi's and they're hunting like mad (and vice versa). I believe that most of us are old enough to know what the proper etiquette is around the opposite sex. Even so, in reality, we're surrounded by the opposite sex in our daily lives all the time; at work, at school, in public, etc... Isn't it better for us to be around those that are Muslim with, as we would hope, some modicum of sharm and hayya? At least it's definitely more likely to be there than anywhere else! For that reason, segregated shaadi's are da gay!

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Of course even @ segregated shaadi's the mackers and "teehee-ers" are gonna be taking bathroom breaks and phone calls in the lobby. ::rolling eyes :: Those are totally inescapable and marked off the "potential's list" right off the bat. I can understand the reasoning behind segregation, and maybe i'm being a little cultural here, but I still think that for this day and age, with all fitna we have to face today, allowing shaadi's to be mixed isn't the worse thing in the world!

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Well, anyways, ima have to suck it up and go anyways.. *shrug* Just know, my shaadi's not gonna be segregated, Oh hell no! :p

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